Trauma is the lasting emotional response that often results from an individual living through a distressing event. Experiencing a traumatic event can harm a person’s sense of safety, sense of self, and ability to regulate emotions and navigate relationships. While most individuals may initially struggle to adjust after a traumatic event, time and self-care often lead to improvement. If symptoms worsen, persist over months or even years, and interfere with daily functioning, you may have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
Traumatic events can be difficult to define because the same event may be more traumatic for some people than for others. However, traumatic events experienced early in life, such as abuse, neglect and disrupted attachment, can often be devastating. Equally challenging can be later-life experiences that are out of one’s control, such as a serious accident, being the victim of violence, living through a natural disaster or war, or sudden unexpected loss.
When thoughts and memories of the traumatic event don’t go away or get worse, they may lead to PTSD which can seriously disrupt a person’s ability to regulate their emotions and maintain healthy relationships.
Traumatic events range from recent single incidents such as a car crash, to past occurrences that were either single incidents or long-term patterns, like physical abuse. PTSD can manifest as simple or complex—single traumatic events more likely leading to the former, while chronic trauma may result in the latter, impacting the ability to form healthy relationships. Complex trauma in children is usually referred to as “developmental trauma.” Seeking support and trauma counseling can play a vital role in navigating the emotional aftermath and fostering healing.
I have specialized training in the two common approaches to trauma therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and Eye Movement and Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR). More generally, people experiencing PTSD often benefit greatly from ‘trauma-informed’ approaches. Trauma informed care refers to therapeutic approaches that validate and are tailored to the unique experience of a person coping with PTSD. It means that I understand the symptoms of trauma to be coping strategies that have developed in reaction to a traumatic experience. Non-judgmentally, it recognizes that a person with PTSD may have behavioural, emotional or physical adaptations that have developed in specific response to overwhelming stressors.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an extensively researched, effective psychotherapy method proven to help people recover from trauma and other distressing life experiences, including PTSD, anxiety, depression, and panic disorders.
During an EMDR session, your therapist works gently with you to revisit the traumatic moment or incident, recalling feelings surrounding the experience, as well as any negative thoughts, sensations and memories while helping you focus on bilateral stimulation. This can be done using various technologies such as a horizontal light. By focusing on something external while dealing with the internal material you start forging new neural pathways, ones that give these memories far less physical and emotional weight.
To simplify, you can think of EMDR as a desensitization therapy. The memories won’t disappear but they won’t be as overwhelming or intense.
Counselling fees are $140 per 50 minute session.
If you book under CVAP, your fee will be $60 (CVAP pays for $80).
Coverage for counselling in Vancouver depends upon your or your spouse’s healthcare plan. Upon payment of your session, I’ll provide you with a receipt to submit to your insurance provider for reimbursement.
I offer both. You may book phone counselling or online video appointments instead of in person. I also provide check-ins for clients who are moving forward on their own, but may want to connect with me on their progress every now and then. Check-ins for established clients are 30 minutes.
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